Love is simple - ever hear the phrase "keep it simple, stupid?" I love this, you should never complicate things by trying to fix, change, alter, make better, influence, organize, harass or in any other term expect them to ever and I mean EVER do anything different. If you love them, love them. If you think they would be perfect if only they were or weren't _____, move on. Love is a gift without parameters or hoops to jump through. - Steven Valentine.