He always has used money to control, like his ex wife said "money rules him!". But it's not ruling him it's how he views it, how he uses it as yet another way to control be it via enticement of promised gifts & lifestyle, or to punish by withdrawing to put u at financial risk. He also spends lavishly on himself whilst u & the kids struggle. Narcissistic Supply, Narcissistic Mother, Narcissistic People, Narcissistic Sociopath, Narcissistic Personality Disorder, Narcissistic Behavior, Abusive Relationship, Relationships, Frases